The Church and the
Homosexual
"We need to recognize the existence of
homosexually-oriented believers in our churches," says Joe Dallas,
President of Exodus International. How the Church responds to the homosexual
seeking to be freed from this sin, in large part determines whether or not he
will keep fighting. Written to the homosexual, and to those who love them,
Dallas' book, Desires in Conflict, Answering the Struggle for Sexual
Identity, was an eye-opener to me. What are the roots of homosexuality? How
does one, with God's help, change one's sexual orientation? How should parents
react when their son or daughter tells them they are homosexual? Is your Church
group composed of warm, and loving brethren, so that someone with homosexual
tendencies could openly talk about their feelings, and be met, not with
rejection and hostility, but with concern and compassion? From a thoroughly
Biblical viewpoint, Dallas helps us understand the number one social and moral
issue of our time: homosexuality. As a Church, we have fallen far short of
perfection in dealing with this problem. The Church, lamentably, has been part
of the problem.
Every Church Pastor, every parent, every
young person, needs the information contained in Desires in Conflict.
Joe Dallas shows us how to deal with many problems, homosexuality, or whatever
kind of sin. "When we [the Church] function as a body - a group of
believers who acknowledge their need for each other, who take time to know each
other, and who commit themselves to each other's welfare - we create a godly
environment where healing of all kinds can take place" (Dallas, p. 263).
God created man to need personal, close relationships with others, of the same
sex, and the opposite sex. Homosexuality is a wrong expression of man's need
for relationships, and the healing of this sin comes from establishing right
relationships, with God and with others. This book is NOT psychology; it
describes how to put into practice the love of God. In the Church, we all too
often play games while the men and women around us are tormented by sin, too
timid to bare their bosoms, too ashamed to ask our help. If we are to ever grow
into spiritual maturity and the love of Christ, we must implement the solutions
Dallas so eloquently expresses in Desires in Conflict. This 288-page
book is available for purchase online at www.giveshare.org/amazon/youth.html, or for a donation of $14 postpaid from Giving &
Sharing.
Some may say that the problem of homosexuality
is not a problem in the Sabbatarian community. They are wrong. The
"Rainbow 7th Day Sabbatarians" have a web page which claims support
from gay and gay friendly people of the Worldwide Church of God, Seventh-day
Adventists, Sabbatarian Anabaptists, Church of God (7th Day), Church
of God International, Philadelphia Church of God, Global Church of God, United
Church of God, and Seventh Day Baptists.
The site has a guest book. Here are two
representative comments in the guest book: (1) "I am a gay married man in
UCG. I am in the closet and plan to stay that way for awhile. I could tell you
many things about gay life in the Worldwide Church of God. I am a graduate of
Ambassador College. I have even had sex with a minister when I was in college.
But I can't/won't come out yet. I do approve of your web pages and your club.
Please keep up the good work." (2) "I was surprised to find this web
site for gay Sabbatarians. I am a SDA and live in Florida. I am in the closet still,
as my parents are paying for my college education and I'm afraid that if they
knew I was gay, they would stop helping me. Thanks for this site and your links
to the SDA Kinship."
According to this Seventh Day Gay web site,
the various Scriptures used to show homosexuality is a sin have all been
"mistranslated and/or misused." Seventh day gays had considered
setting up their own Feast site for this just past Tabernacles in Dallas, which
they called the "Festal Autumn Gathering (FAG)." However, at the last
minute, everyone decided to go to the Feast Sites in their respective areas.
According to gay webmaster Stephen, "We are thinking of having one in the
future, though. . . . The reason to have a gay FOT is not to separate
ourselves, but to be somewhere we are accepted and are still able to practice
our beliefs. We don't want to be separate from others of the Churches of
God." Gays are coming to a congregation near you.
Gay Seventh Dayers declare that David and
Jonathon were lovers, and therewith imply, since David is a man after God's own
heart, that God Himself is homosexual. The webmaster of this site, a baptized
former member of the Worldwide Church of God who left in the late 1970s, claims
he was told by the ministers who baptized him that baptism would cure him of
his homosexuality. It did not. Later, he was anointed for his sin, yet he was
not cured. He says he always believed that homosexual "marriage" is
morally right. It is plainly obvious that the scriptural position on
homosexuality has been missed on this individual, and that ministers who dealt
with him had a total lack of understanding of the homosexual problem.
If the facts presented above do not stir you
to love and good works, then nothing will. The Sabbatarian community is
basically at fault for not dealing with the issue of homosexuality. Unless we
build an atmosphere of love and positive Bible teaching, the aberrant theology
of homosexuals and development of pro-homosexual groups will continue to
proliferate. Freedom and liberation from sins such as homosexuality can only
come in a Church empowered by the Holy Spirit of the Almighty. Put yourself in
the shoes of a closet Sabbatarian homosexual. Would your Church be a
loving community in which he or she could confide in, and seek help from?
Homosexuality, according to experts such as Joe Dallas, results from defective
relationships. What kind of relationships exist in your Sabbatarian
congregation? Do your actions lead to the solution, or instead the
continuation, of the homosexual problem?